Friday, November 6, 2020

Visiting Yosemite History

 Yosemite National Park -- To avoid the TV and the worries of 2020 we spent election day in Yosemite National Park. Looking for history.



The visit marked 40 years since my first visit after we moved west in 1980. That visit was with two then-small children (Pat was traveling back east) in our bright orange VW Westfalia camper. I got slightly lost driving to the park, but eventually found our way. It cost $5 to get into the park. Much to my surprise it was crowded and the only camping spot we could find was on the Tioga Pass Road at a place called Smokey Jack Campground. We woke up to snow on the ground, both a delight and a concern. (The campground no longer exists, a victim of NPS policy to concentrate visitors and eliminate low-cost lodging.)

Forty years later Pat and I drove  into Yosemite early, arriving around 9 a.m. in time to see the sun coating the north said granite walls with light. It was a cool but beautiful morning.

We visited a few of the scenic sites, admired the surroundings, but spent the best part of our day in the Pioneer Cemetery, reading tombstones and remembering the people who were here 150 years ago.

James Lamon (no relation) was the first white settler in Yosemite. He homesteaded before Abraham Lincoln declared the valley a national treasure, then Lamon built a log cabin and established a farm with crops and orchards. The local Indians had been run off or killed  less than 10 years earlier, and he got along with the few who had returned. 




Like many men of that era he had come west for gold, didn't find much, and located a place to call home. His cabin was located in the upper or Eastern end of the valley, near what is now used for a horse stable and tourist parking. Some of his trees survive to this day, and volunteers come in and pick the fruit so they will not attract bears.

We drove into the area where his cabin was located, and then went to the cemetery to pay our respects.

Lamon's grave


Here is a link to Lamon and the park: https://www.nps.gov/yose/blogs/the-first-pioneer-settler-of-yosemite-valley.htm

The Pioneer Cemetery in Yosemite includes the graves of many pioneers and early settlers, and victims of the then-harsh lives they lived. 

 John Muir is not buried here but near his home in Martinez, Ca.  But if you want a  glimpse of Muir in Yosemite you can hike the paved trail below Yosemite Falls and see the site of the lumber mill where he lived and worked when he first arrived. It is marked by a hard-to-spot stone bench alongside the creek.

Muir was hired to produce lumber by a pioneer entrepreneur and resident named James Mason Hutchings, who has not one but two tombstones marking his grave in Yosemite.  The larger stone, a chunk of granite, was apparently put in place when his teenage daughter Florence, the first white child born in the Valley,  died in an accident on the trail while leading a group of tourists up a steep trail. Mount Florence is named for her. The inscription for her is located on the top side of the granite.



Hutchings is not what you could call a popular hero of the early days. He was apparently a rather stuffy Englishman, with  opinions about everything. By trade he was a publisher, and that led him to come to Yosemite very early leading a tourist group that included artists, and then deciding to promote Yosemite as a destination. He bought a partially-completed hotel/cottage near the Merced River with a view of the tall waterfall, promoted the Valley through magazine articles and books, and saw himself as the "father of Yosemite."  In stereographic pictures from 1860 he shows up in almost every photo, posing in a boat on the river or on horseback in a meadow. He would hire the photographer, and then be the model.

Here is his history from the park service site: https://www.nps.gov/yose/learn/historyculture/hutchings.htm

He picked the site for his grave, and I suspect dictated the carving which says:

Father of Yosemite
Builder of the first trails, roads, 
bridges and dwellings of this
valley



In the same plot are his daughters and his second wife. It has been rumored for years that Hutchings and Muir did not like each other, perhaps because Muir was well liked by the ladies in his family. Whatever the truth, neither man ever really mentioned the other in their extensive writings about Yosemite.

Hutchings fought the federal and state governments for years, disputing the claim he was on public land. He eventually lost the argument, but won some money for his trouble.

Hutchings "hotel" was a rustic place on the south side of the river looking at the waterfall. He improved it and it grew through the years, notably with an enclosed back porch that featured a giant cedar tree in the middle of the room. He added glass to the windows, which had been holes, and partitions inside instead of sheets hanging from the rafters.

Today, the site of the hotel can be located by crossing the south side road at the Sentinel Bridge, directly across from the stop sign is a broken tree in a small clearing.


That's what remains of Hutchings' once-famous hotel, along with a flat stone that may have been a fireplace hearth. Look  up about ten feet and you can see wire which apparently supported part of the porch roof, and marks in the back left from where the roof was attached to the tree.


Hutchings essentially was kicked out of Yosemite when the settlement was done, but he came back after a political change in the commissioners who "ran" the valley fired the first guardian, Galen Clark, and replaced him with Hutchings. That didn't last, and Hutchings eventually gto the job of managing a tourist attraction in Calaveras County, at Calaveras Big Trees. He died at 84 while driving a buggy on the Big Oak Flat Road heading for a visit to Yosemite.

Hutchings legacy has always been clouded by his less-than-popular style. He was identified by one pioneer as grumpy. But he was the person more than any other who promoted the beauty of the valley, brought artists and authors and photographers into the valley to spread its fame, and played a significant role in making Yosemite known to the world.

Galen Clark, on the other hand, was a competent quiet man who had come to the Wawona area to escape to the woods for his failing health. Clark's Station was a popular stage stop on the route into the park in the 1800s, and he had a reputation as a warm host. His experience in the area led to his being named the first guardian of Yosemite once the state took control, a role he fulfilled for decades.  He was, as the state likes to point out, the very first park ranger.

Unlike Hutchings, Clark made friends, did what he was asked, and when he got older voluntarily stepped down from his guardian role, suggesting that  a younger man would be better for the demanding job. Here is a site with a lot more detail: https://www.nps.gov/yose/learn/historyculture/galen-clark.htm

Clark's Grave



Clark selected his gravesite and planted four Giant Sequoia seedlings at the corners. Today they mark his gravesite, along with one new tree that has sprung up.
He originally came to the area because his health was failing, and he decided the mountains would either kill him or cure him. Like Hutchings, he lived a very long life.

Every graveyard has stories to tell, and Yosemite's are compelling even when incomplete. How did John Anderson get killed by a horse? He was best known as one of the earliest people to climb Half Dome. 








Who exactly were the dozen or more native Americans buried in the graveyard and what sort of lives did they lead?



The cemetery is a place that speaks through the decades of triumphs and tragedies. It is a good place to spend a little time. Read more at: https://www.yosemite.ca.us/library/yosemite_indians_and_other_sketches/cemetery.htm






Chapter Two -- Waiting on the Virus

Murphys, Ca. , March 27, 2020 --  We are not isolated, but we are living a totally different life than just two weeks ago.
We live in a small subdivision (Teeny Town) occupied primarily by retired or near-retired folks. A few still work every day, either from home or a strictly isolated office environment, but we also have a good number of retired people between 75 and 90, all within a block of us.

Our weeks used to be defined by meetings and gatherings with friends, all gone now.
Doctor appointments have been cancelled or postponed. 
Pat's routine gathering with a group of women friends  postponed.
My trips to the state park to volunteer are postponed.
Our church "small group" meeting postponed.
Music jams on Mondays and choir practice on Wednesdays postponed.
My occasional trips with friends to the local casino postponed, as are my weekly poker games with neighbors.
Frequent visits and shared meals with our neighbors are postponed. We have figured out we can share food without direct contact, and a lot of that goes on.  Last night our neighbor provided steak, which I grilled, and a salad. Pat made wild rice and other sides, and we carried them across the street and left them on the porch.
Church is postponed, though an online version is available which we watch.
It is a very different way to be.

We set up a daily schedule for ourselves, which is rarely precise, but it is something like this:
8-10 a.m.  Get up, stagger around, make coffee, drink coffee, and then decide if breakfast is a real production or a Granola bar. Pat almost always gets up early, and me late, because I usually stay up later.
10 a.m. Exercise. This may be a walk around the block, further if the weather is good, or Tai Chi in the living room (nor far from the coffee pot), or both. Pat is recovering from back surgery, doing well after about eight weeks, and my tender back is improving to the point our daily mileage is increasing slowly from a  short block, to more distant spots.
We eat, exercise and walk  just the two of us. We may chat with a neighbor who is out doing the same thing or on the porch, but always from a distance and not for very long. We do not go into anyone else's house.
11a.m. to 1 p.m. This is chore time. We try to have one household chore lined up every day, but we get sloppy. The idea is good though. We have reorganized kitchen cabinets, sewed some drapes, written to friends, gone through a few old photo albums (we threw nothing out). Pat spends some of her time on the phone and computer dealing with the church's Parish Care system, checking on people by phone, arranging food deliveries etc.,  and I spend some of my time dealing with the state park's non-profit organization, which has five employees, and is the major source of money for educational programs during normal times.
1 p.m. to 2 p.m. We have lunch, either leftovers or something light, at the kitchen counter.
2 p.m. till 5 p.m. We may keep working on chores, or move on to reading a book or playing games on the computer. I spend more time than necessary on Facebook, chatting with friends and trying not to be nasty to politicians I despise.
We may sneak in a nap, usually an hour, and take another walk if the weather is good.
5 p.m. 7 p.m. is taken up with dinner. We are well stocked, which was sort of an accident because I made  big run before the virus hit. Normally we would eat out a lot but that is on hold.
7 p.m. to bedtime. We choose up sides and go to our computers for a while, reading or playing card games. Or read in a chair. We rarely watch TV but have signed up for Netflix at the urging of our children.

Sunday, July 26, 2020

Sailing ... Part 1 ... Getting started

At the dock of the Oakland Yacht Club around 2010

As a teenager I lived on or near the Gulf of Mexico and spent most summers hanging out with friends on the waters of Mobile Bay and beaches of the coast. One hot afternoon in 1966, lounging on the end of a pier at Point Clear on the bay, two of us decided to take my friend's parent's Sunfish -- a tiny "sailboat" built for single-handing --  off the dock and learn how to sail.
Point Clear, on Mobile Bay

We knew nothing but we were 16, confident, tanned and competent swimmers.
So we took the boat, let the wind fill the single sail, and went off into the middle of the bay with the wind hard at our backs. Maybe a mile or two offshore the water became a bit rougher, the wind harder, and the ship channel busier.
Time to turn back: we pointed the boat to land, and the boat stopped. The wind was on our nose and we  began to figure out that the wind and tide was slowly pushing us toward the Gulf of Mexico, not our preferred destination. Freighters were passing us, heading toward South America.
 We had never heard of "tacking."
I would not say we panicked, but we began to express some concern to each other. We gave up on the sail, got on our knees and began paddling by hand toward the shore. Eventually we were within hailing distance of the end of the pier where my friend's younger brother was watching from a canvas chair.
We yelled. He ignored us. The wind blew us further offshore. We yelled more, He laughed and ignored us more.
Finally an adult heard the noise, ordered the brother to crank up a ski boat and  tow us back to the dock. The brother was amused, but we were not. We received specific instructions from parents that night on the folly of our ways, and gave up sailing a Sunfish.
A sunfish, competently controlled

By the time the next sailing opportunity happened, I was a mature married man with a wife and baby, in my late 20s, and better adept at avoiding trouble.  An older co-worker named Burke Edwards had purchased an older sailboat, a 32 foot Islander designed for bays and coasts near Cocoa Beach. We rode along with Burke and his wife Beth in the lagoons of  the Indian River, maybe twice when he offered us an invitation. Would we like to go the Bahamas with them on vacation? The Bahamas were about 90 miles away from the Florida coast, across the Gulf Stream, in an area affectionately known as the Bermuda Triangle.
Burke was older, and had some sailing and navigation experience, and we learned later could not see well. Plus, in his 60s, he wanted a younger helper along.
Pat's parents lived nearby and volunteered to babysit our less than one-year-old daughter for us to accept the chance of a lifetime.
I figured we would learn as we went. And we did.
We motorsailed down the Intercoastal Waterway for  a couple of days, getting used to the boat and the tight quarters. The night before we were to leave at dawn to cross the Gulf Stream, I tried to go to bed early on the dining table bed, but the others were so excited they stayed up, standing near ny bunk, talking loudly. Finally, around midnight I gave us and suggested we leave. And we did.
Leaving the Port of Palm Beach was easy, even at night, but the moment we were on the ocean things changed. There were lights everywhere from fishing boats and freighters going up and down the coast. For three or so hours we were dodging traffic.
Then when things calmed down Burke announced he was going to bed and I was in charge at the helm. His instructions were to point the boat at a certain fuzzy star off to east, don't hit anything, and call him if I needed help.
Before dawn he got up and checked his primary navigation tool, a radio direction finder that could just barely notice the signal from a radio tower at Grand Bahama Island's east end.
The marina at Jack Tar Resort Bahamas

Amazingly, around 9 a.m. we spotted the island and the the entrance to the harbor. We felt we had conquered the vast ocean, or at least  apart of it. and discovered paradise. We cleared customs, tied up at a dock, cleaned up the boat and broke out the beer. Over the next few days we found beautiful beaches, clear waters, caught lobster off the back end of the boat for lunch and lived the good life.
We sailed down to Freeport, a queasy and rough trip, to get our little stove repaired and then sailed across the shallow banks toward West End, the northernmost Bahama Island known mostly for deep sea fishing in the Atlantic. We ran aground en route, which it turns out is a routine exercise while sailing there, and finally got unstruck when some friendly Bahamians dragged us off the sandbar. A Tropical Depression moved into the area with rain and wind, so we stayed tied up at the dock within easy reach of the beer bar and pool table.
Walker Key as it looked before developers

We sailed  by West End, and in fairly rough seas started back to Florida. The currents are so strong that to get to Palm Beach we had to aim for Miami, and let the tide push us north. We were doing well despite heavy swells, when the dinghy broke loose and we performed a "man overboard" rescue to retrieve it, and then lost our engine just as the wind picked up while approaching the inlet. We checked in with the Coast Guard and they assured us they would watch us, and then Burke  put me at the helm and stood on the bow and directed us through the rolling breakers, surfing our way neatly into port as if we knew what we were doing.
Three weeks aboard a 32 foot boat with friends, we had salt in our veins. It took a while, but we came back to it.

(More to come)








Friday, June 19, 2020

Remembering my father

 Louis Ernest “Lep” LaMont



Louis Ernest LaMont was born at his grandparents’ home in Montgomery, Alabama, on Feb. 17, 1892.

An only child, his mother was 37 when he was born. His mother’s family had deep roots in the South and his father was a relative newcomer from the North.

Montgomery was the capitol of the state, a major river shipping point for  crops from the Black Belt region and at the time proud to have been “The First Capitol of the Confederacy.”

The South in this era was caught between memories of the Civil War, which most of the adults in the family had lived through, and the worst of Jim Crow years that followed. The 1890s were relatively prosperous, and peaceful.

Ernest was christened in the Methodist Church where his grandfather was a lay leader. He wore a long white dress made by his mother from a
pattern she found in a popular magazine.

Their lifestyle was “old fashioned” even a bit Victorian.  Men worked in trades in town. Entertainment centered around socials and theatrical and musical performances, often at church or in the home.

The men in Ernest’s extended family were printers and union supporters. Ernest’s grandfather had been a foreman at the Montgomery Advertiser since before the Civil War, and his uncles had worked there or at the Paragon Press, a local printing company. His  parents, Roswell DeEstra LaMont and Mary “Mollie” Barry LaMont, had met when Ernest’s father (known as R.D.) was working as a printer with his grandfather.

The home Ernest was born in was built before the Civil War. It was a log cabin that had been added to over the years  until it had a shaded porch on the front and planked outside. It looked like a frame house, facing Whitman Street, rather than a cabin.  A garden was planted out front, and they had a milk cow in a shed. The home was located on a hill above downtown Montgomery, what was then the edge of town. It is now called the Cottage Hill historical district.

Ernest’ parents had lived briefly in Birmingham, where his father was working for the Birmingham News, but returned to the Barry home in Montgomery for the birth.

His father Roswell had moved south from Michigan in the 1880s. Ernest’ mother Mollie was a native of Lowndes County southwest of Montgomery, where her grandparents and cousins (named Pruitt) still lived.

Ernest always considered Montgomery his home even though the family moved away briefly. When he was eight years old they lived in Geneva, Alabama  long enough for him to take part in a Sunday School pageant. But Ernest attended public schools in Montgomery and lived in the Barry family home for most of his childhood.

The Barry family was reasonably prosperous. They lived in town, owned their own house and acquired some symbols of success: a large piano, custom-built furniture, a library of classic books, oil paintings and needlepoint on the wall and a Tiffany lamp in the parlor. They traveled to the Gulf Coast for fishing trips and vacations, and owned some land outside Montgomery at a place called Mountain Creek.

No LaMont relatives lived nearby, having remained up North.

Ernest was raised in town. Social life centered on the family, church and school. He was an only child, born relatively late in his parents’ lives, and was surrounded by Barry family members. His three aunts remained single and at home. He had numerous Barry cousins his age nearby to play with.

Early photos of him show thin hair, a narrow face, a prominent nose, and
stiff formal collar.


His life began in the oil lamp and horse and buggy era, but evolved to include  radio, electricity, telephones and automobiles.

People moved around by walking or riding horse-drawn streetcars. Cotton bales were brought to the market in the heart of town by black men, many the sons of former slaves, in mule-draw wagons.

As a teenager he saw  the first automobiles drive through town,
and watched his first airplane fly overhead.

At about 18 years old Ernest and a friend built a crystal receiver radio set and were able to listen to radio signals for the first time. The event was written up as news in the local newspaper.

While he was a child his parents and grandparents rebuilt the family home. The original log home sat facing Whitman. They built a new Victorian-style house on the same lot but facing 508 Clayton Street. Builders incorporated the original log building into the back of the new house. The old log house served as the kitchen of the home.


Family photo albums include pictures of what his mother called “the old home place” and the new home built around 1905. (She sold that home in the 1930s. The current owner discovered the old cabin section and stripped away the interior walls that hid the logs in the kitchen to reveal the history of the home.)

Ernest attended an all-male school called Boys High School. The curriculum included Latin and Greek and every student was trained in formal penmanship and studied classic literature.

In a school play he acted the part of a leopard, and was given the nickname “Lep.” His friends called him that for the rest of his life.

Around 1910 Ernest briefly attended college at Auburn University.

Around that time he and several friends plotted to get rich by going to Central
America, then known as the Banana Republics, to make their fortunes.
He claimed they saved enough money for passage, but spent it all when
they got to New Orleans and never got on the boat. They were forced to come
home and go to work.

Ernest worked at a variety of jobs in Montgomery. He worked at a local
florist shop, loaded gold and silver coins at the Fourth National Bank,
and became an accounting clerk.



When World War One began he was a florist, and then joined the Alabama National Guard. He then worked as a civilian for the Adjutant General of the State of Alabama as disbursing officer for the state’s military department, responsible for delivering supplies and troops being moved to training posts and to ports bound for Europe. He was paid $4 a day.

He then went to work for the state draft board office while waiting to go on active duty in the Army.

Ernest formally enlisted in the Army on July 4, 1917, and was assigned as a PFC in the Quartermaster Corps. But he was not called up for duty until December. While waiting he ran the state’s draft board office, replacing his boss, an Army officer who had been reassigned.

Late in 1917 the Army sent him to train with the Quartermaster Corps at Camp Joseph E. Johnson in Jacksonville, Florida. He was paid $30 a month.

In early 1918 Ernest was on a troop train heading for the port at Newport News, Virginia, to sail on a troop ship to Europe.  The railroad  tracks were blocked by a derailment and his unit was pulled off the train and put to work cleaning up the mess left behind.


By the time his unit was ready to go new orders caught up with him ordering him home.

The Army was told by state officials — including his old boss — that he was “irreplaceable” at the draft office in Montgomery, and he was released from the Signal Corps and sent back to Montgomery and formally appointed  Adjutant General of the state.

He returned a few days before his birthday in 1918 and took over as executive of the draft board He was in charge of the military draft for the entire state, with the Army rank of Major.

That summer the Butler Alabama Choctaw Weekly Banner weekly newspaper blasted him in an editorial, “A Call to Americanism!!”and attacked “this Frenchman Monsieur LaMont  ” for sending American boys off to war.
The newspaper did not know his Scottish ancestors had fought in the Revolution, he had enlisted and served in the Army and was a native of Alabama. He found the fiery editorial amusing, and kept a clipping in his papers.

That summer a severe flu epidemic swept the nation, killing thousands, and threatening every city. A photograph of Montgomery’s Fourth of July celebration shows crowds of people wearing protective face masks to avoid spreading infection. He stayed healthy.

Ernest remained at the Draft Board job until Spring of 1919, closing out the office after the end of the war. His mementoes of the Army were commendations from the state and the Army, a Colt 38 Special revolver which had been his sidearm in the service, and photos from the training camp in Jacksonville.

When the Roaring 20s began he was a 27 year-old bachelor from an “acceptable” local family and knew everybody in what was then a small but prosperous town. He was a 32nd degree Mason and joined the American Legion. One of his classmates became Montgomery mayor. Another became a U.S. Senator. Another a judge. His best friend owned a jewelry store downtown.



He kept several photo albums from that time filled with pictures of social
events, summer camping outings at Mountain Creek and fishing trips with his family to Perdido Bay and Pensacola, Florida.
           At the wheel at a fair with friends in the 1920s

He kept a notebook of poetry, some copied from things he liked and some apparently that he wrote. He shared poems with friends, and joined book clubs and began to build a library including Dickens and the complete works of O. Henry.

Ernest was a charter member of Montgomery’s Beauvoir Country Club. Though he never cared much for golf, he enjoyed the social life. He attended, as did his family, the local Methodist church on Court Street that his grandfather Barry had helped establish in the 1800s.

He was arrested once during Prohibition for drinking from a flask at an Auburn Football game. He laughed about it when he told the story later.

A good friend in the 1920s chided him in a letter for a lack of ambition, encouraging him to “do great things.” Ernest always worked in the years following the war, but never seemed ambitious. People who knew him in the 1920s and 1930s remembered him as a man with “perfect manners,” honest, a charming companion and good friend. He was “dapper” in a way that people understood in the 1920s and 1930s.
My mother said that that during the Roaring 20s he “knew everybody” in Montgomery and Atlanta. He was acquainted with people like Zelda Sayre, whose family lived nearby. Zelda later married F. Scott Fitzgerald, a frequent Montgomery visitor during the war. There is a photo in his papers of Zelda, about age 16, along with young adults all in their 20s, at a creek-side swimming party with Ernest’s friends.

Social life in that time and place included a lot of social drinking-- he preferred Four Roses blended whiskey -- and at least two of his close friends died alcoholics. Social events called for cocktails, but drunkenness was considered unfortunate or bad manners.

Photos show him to be neat and precise in appearance and dress, and unmarked by age. He was 5 foot 7 inches tall, and was thin his entire life. Photographs of him from that era resemble photos of the dancer Fred Astaire.
Letters to his mother indicate he enjoyed being single, traveling and working at different places throughout the South.

By 1927 he lived in Charlotte, N.C., and worked for an insurance company traveling the South. He wrote his mother regularly and visited Montgomery in a brand new 1927 Chevrolet Coupe which he bought for $540.

He left Charlotte when his father had a heart attack in Miami. When his father died that Spring, Ernest corresponded the details of the burial and the small estate to his mother and then visited her by train before returning to Charlotte. He liked the climate and surroundings in the Miami area. He never forgot that lure of South Florida.



Around 1930 he moved to Atlanta, Georgia, to live and work. Three of his best friends from a Montgomery family lived there -- Richard, Ed and Sanders Hickey.  Ernest had been particularly close to Sanders, who died young, and he eventually named his son for him. He became good friends with Richard during the early 1930s, the last years of prohibition. (Richard later became my godfather.)

Ernest shared an apartment during Prohibition with Richard, who was an attorney, in the Cox-Carlton Hotel , near the corner of Ponce DeLeon and Peachtree streets. Friends stored kegs of illegal whiskey in their big cedar closet in their apartment, a service they were willing to render for a small “evaporation tax.”

Ernest traveled the South for insurance companies, auditing claims and payments from firms, including the coal industry.  A pattern of work was established that was followed for 25 years: traveling constantly by automobile throughout the South; staying in business-oriented hotels, and always keeping his roots in Montgomery. (When I was a child I thought my father knew every hotel manager and desk clerk in five states.)

Ernest was 40 and living a happy bachelor life in booming Atlanta when he met Dorothy Strickland, a 20-year-old nurse from North Georgia. They met through a mutual friend who had a detective agency and whose girl friend ran
the women’s boarding house where Dorothy and her sister Elizabeth lived, not
far off Peachtree Street.

Dorothy described Ernest, whom she always called “Lep,” as “charming and good looking” an  said he had almost courtly good manners.

They went back to the Barry home on Clayton in Montgomery for the wedding on April 8, 1933, the height of the Great Depression. Times were difficult all over the country but they survived reasonably well. Dorothy always had work at local hospitals.
Ernest changed jobs several times in the 1930s, but was able to work despite the Depression. He continued to travel.



They moved several times. They rented an apartment on Peachtree Street,
and then moved to a rented house in Decatur in the late 1930s.

Money was an issue for Dorothy, but the lack of it never seemed to bother Ernest. He once wrote a letter to his mother that he would come to visit here when he could raise enough money for a $5 train ticket.

During the late 30s they dealt with big changes in their new lives together.
In February 1937 their first child, Mary Elizabeth LaMont, was born in Atlanta.

Then Dorothy’s much-admired older brother was killed while training pilots at the Atlanta Air Field south of town. Her father had an severe heart attack after hearing the news, and ended up living with them during his recovery. He died within a year.

Shortly after that Ernest’s mother Mollie, in her 80s, sold her Montgomery home and moved in briefly with Ernest and Dorothy in Atlanta. She died in their home.

That year Ernest bought a Plymouth Coupe for business and family. That car stayed in the family through the war years and beyond and he called it “Old Betsy.”

In November 1940 I was born while the family was living in a small house just off the golf course near East Lake Country Club on the outskirts of Atlanta.

As World War Two began to reshape the country Ernest and Dorothy moved the family to Mobile, Alabama in 1942. He continued to work and travel for Bituminous Casualty Company, but in a different territory. Dorothy took a job working as a nurse in the county welfare clinic.

The family lived in an area known as Spring Hill in a development built to handle the crowds of war workers that flooded the town. The rented house was small, wood-framed, in a hilly area covered by pine trees. Most neighbors were young couples who had come to town to work for war industries. Single men lived in dormitories near war plants, or rented rooms in crowded homes downtown. Mobile at that time was one of the fastest growing towns in the country.

The housing area the family lived in provided outdoor movies on summer
nights, sitting on blankets under the pine trees swatting mosquitoes.

Entertainment included going down to the shipyards for the launching of
Liberty Ships. Mardi Gras, a weeks-long festival more family oriented
than in neighboring New Orleans, was a major annual entertainment.

In 1944 the family moved closer into town, to a downstairs duplex  carved from a large home on the main street of town. They lived at 1214 Government street, the east-west thoroughfare which also served as U.S. Highway 90. The big pale yellow house had a large front porch, giant oak trees, azaleas in the front yard and pecan trees and collapsed servant quarters in the back. Rent was $40 a month.

Ernest traveled constantly, and was seldom at home. Money seemed to be an constant issue between husband and wife.

One day in 1948 my father came by my elementary school to tell me that he and mother were getting   divorce and he would not be living with us anymore. He was full of reassurances, but was clearly unhappy. The marriage was over, and a new lonesome chapter in my father’s life began.

 Neither Ernest or Dorothy ever explained exactly what happened, if they understood it. The legal reasons for the divorce were “irreconcilable differences.” She acknowledged later that she had expectations he could not meet. He never talked about it.

He also never changed his lifestyle much. He still was traveling, living in hotels and eating in restaurants. He was caring, kind and loving, but we did not expect him to show up for scout outings, formal dances at school, swimming lessons or baseball games. We got encouraging letters and brief visits instead.


In 1948 Ernest moved his few personal belongings, including an Army trunk
filled with family papers and photo albums, to the basement of his cousin John Barry’s house on Cherry Street in Montgomery 200 miles away. That remained his base for travel and work for the next few years.

He visited Mobile frequently and wrote letters constantly, making sure my sister and I knew of his attention and affection. He and Dorothy were cordial but distant. Both insisted that my sister and I respect and obey the other parent. He never spoke an ill word about my mother.

The next few years were difficult for him, because of declining health and finances, but he always worked hard to remain in close touch with my sister and me.

He wrote at least one letter every week to both of us children for almost a decade. He would often tell funny stories or relate small events from his life. He reported on a trip to the race track, where he lost on a two dollar bet, and he wrote us about fishing in the Florida Keys. He made up bedtime stories for us, in which we played starring roles, all typed meticulously onto hotel stationary on his Royal portable he used for business. He planned trips we could make together to interesting places. He monitored our progress in school. Sometimes he wrote lonely letters asking us to write more often, wanting to know what were we doing and why we didn’t let him know what was going on. Once in a while his frustration would show and he would threaten, gently, to withhold our $1 allowance until he heard from us.
(We were both poor letter writers.)

During the first few years after the divorce Ernest would travel often to Mobile
and stay at the Battle House Hotel, and we children would visit or stay with him there. He insisted on being filled in on details of my sister’s increasingly active social life, and approved of most of her boyfriends and all of her school activities. Once when he did not approve of a boyfriend he wrote her a long thoughtful letter acknowledging her right to choose her friends but firmly stating his reasons for concern.

He taught Mary how to drive, and showed me how to to shoot his Army
pistol. He bought me a shotgun for hunting and taught me how to use it
safely. He rented a small boat so we could go fishing.

In the summers my sister and I took turns spending several weeks with
him while he worked, and we got to see a lot of the South from his un-air-
conditioned car. We would travel with him, piling up in the back seat of the car with comic books and a candy bar. We waited in the car outside the offices of coal mines near Birmingham, and plants in Tennessee and Georgia, while he did audits inside.

We would ride down the highways with the windows wide open, summer heat blasting through, loudly singing songs he had known from his youth. When we would approach a town he would suggest we quiet down a bit so we would not shock the local residents.

My father made travel fun. We got to see Rock City, Ruby Falls, Civil War battlefields, Silver Springs, Seminole villages and large public swimming pools all over the South. He showed us a Confederate flag his aunts had sewn for
the burial casket for Jefferson Davis in a museum. If there was a beach nearby, we would detour for a quick visit.

He introduced us to his friends along the way, people he had known from decades of travel, or family friends from Montgomery and Atlanta.

He was lonely outside the summers, and his health grew steadily worse. Even in the South the wet cold winters were brutal on his arthritis. Doctors kept trying different treatments and medicines that did not ease the increasing pain. One doctor told my father the source of his pain was his teeth, and so he had all of his teeth pulled. He got no relief. He tried numerous strong medications, some of which made him ill.

In 1952 he announced to us in a letter that his “prayers had been answered”
and he had been able to find a job in Miami, Florida, where it was warm, he
had friends and little travel would be required.

His health had not been good for a decade. He smoked Camel cigarettes constantly, and the years of constant travel were wearing on him. He was in pain much of the time. He had rheumatoid arthritis, was underweight and he was almost completely bald.

But he wrote hopeful cheerful letters about finding an apartment in Coral Gables that was near his work, close to fun things to do when we visited and not too expensive. The Florida job provided a regular salary, with a company car and benefits.  The winters were mild, he had good friends who lived nearby, and he had a place to call home after living out of hotels for years.


During the years he lived in South Florida my sister and I spent summers with him and would see him on some holidays during the school year. He could not see us often because of the distance and expense. But he kept up the steady stream of letters reporting on his life and asking about ours. Long distance telephone phone calls were used only in emergencies in the early 1950s, and travel by airplane was a luxury affordable to few.

During Christmas breaks my father would drive 800 miles to see us, or we would take an overnight train trip to Miami via Jacksonville for a quick visit.

Letters were our primary connection, and my father was faithful and consistent. Every week brought a personal letter, often detailed. Every accomplishment or concern brought a quick response, by mail. My sister and I were not good letter writers despite encouragement from our mother, but our father never stopped writing to us no matter where he was. I have more than 200 letters from those years.

Summers together in Florida were fun for us and for him. The beaches were not far away. We explored the Everglades and the Florida Keys, places my father had been with his father in the 1920s, and much of the rest of Florida. He knew how to catch fish.

He took us to the Methodist Church near the University of Miami on
Sundays. He read a Bible chapter aloud to us every night at bedtime, and marked each chapter off with a Number Two yellow pencil. He had read through the entire book several times, and the marks were adding up.

He took us to every big tourist attraction in the state: Silver Springs, Monkey Jungle, Gatorland and his favorite, Ross Allen’s Reptile Institute where we watched “explorers” milk rattlesnakes for venom. Every Fourth of July we vacationed at inexpensive motels on the north end of Miami Beach, where the rooms were affordable, and we spent the long weekend in beach-front bliss.

My sister and I were able to help my father with household tasks during the summers, but his health continued to fail.

In the Spring of 1955, while we were back in school in Mobile, my father wrote asking for help. His health was getting worse, and he could barely work part-time. His arthritis was crippling him to the point it was very painful to dress or shave or bathe.

My sister, Mary, a senior in high school, decided that she should attend college at the University of Miami and help our father manage.


I spent that summer in Florida with my father, and then my sister arrived and enrolled as a college freshman at the beginning of Fall semester.
By the time Mary moved to Florida to help, our father’s health was so poor he was no longer able to work much. He had little or no savings. She became his caregiver and a full time student.


I joined them in Florida in January of 1956, transferring to Coral Gables
High School for the second semester that year. The three of us got along
well.

Late that Spring my father decided he wanted to move back to Montgomery.
He was 64 years old, unemployed, emaciated, crippled to the point he could no longer type or put a shirt on by himself. He needed medical care and felt he could get it easier at the Veterans’ Administration Hospital in Montgomery.

He was stooped, frail, and tired. He looked 20 years older than he was.
He told us frankly that he wanted to go back to Montgomery “to die at home.”

His ex-wife who had divorced him almost a decade earlier and had since remarried, then offered to do whatever was necessary to help.

My sister Mary gave up college and started looking for work in Montgomery.

Our father -- we always called him Daddy -- accepted what he could not change and looked forward to getting back to his home town.


Mother drove to Coral Gables and picked us all up in May, and drove us the 900 miles to Montgomery. My father and sister moved into an apartment a few blocks from where he had been born. She went to work.

My father’s health never improved. Every two or three months his doctor would put him into the Veteran’s hospital. The staff would build up his strength and send him home.

By December 1956 he had been in the hospital multiple times, but was unable to regain his health. It was painful to walk. He was sick most of the time,
and his weight dropped to 100 pounds, sometimes less. He would gain a
few pounds in the hospital, then lose it immediately when he came home.

He was no longer able to drive. Lost his appetite. He stayed inside the apartment most of the time, and was unable physically to reconnect with the friends from his youth.

My sister had a job, kept house, and did what she could to make him
comfortable.

He went into the hospital for the last time on Christmas Eve 1956.

By then his ex-wife had moved close to Montgomery to help the family, and I was newly enrolled in a military school not far away. We spent a
cold wet holiday in an old house rented at Mount Miegs, not far from the VA
hospital.

January was spent waiting. I visited every weekend. He did not
get better.

In late January 1957 he wrote a list of items he needed on the back of an
envelope, and reminded himself of questions to ask my sister: “When I
am going to get out of here?” was at the top of the list.

He died during the early morning hours February 25, one week after his
65th birthday.

The cause of death on the death certificate was listed as “general
debility.” He had developed tuberculosis and his weight was about
80 pounds.

He didn’t leave a lot of material possessions. Most of the things he owned were contained in one small suitcase-- he called it his “ditty bag.” He also left behind a few items of furniture that remained from the Barry home, and a life insurance policy that eventually helped pay my way through college.

He was buried at Montgomery’s old Oakwood Cemetery in the Barry-LaMont family plot.  A Methodist minister was assisted by a military honor guard and representatives of the local Masonic Lodge. Pall bearers were Barry relatives and old school friends, included his boyhood friend the mayor. The small crowd was mostly made up of Barry cousins, and a few old friends from the early days in Montgomery.

Within a hundred yards of his grave is a hillside covered with graves of
unknown federal soldiers from the Civil War, some who died in a prison his grandfather had helped guard.  Across the railroad tracks on the
next hill is the popular grave of country music star Hank Williams.
In later years my father’s daughter and ex-wife were also buried in the family plot.

Louis Ernest LaMont’s 65-year life included a comfortable childhood in a secure family; a strong sense of home; an exciting era of change;  a good education; a love for books and poetry and music; a strong Christian faith; a sense of optimism; a wide circle of friends; traveling and developing business skills and contacts throughout his native region; marriage and children, and living in a warm and comfortable place he loved.

There were challenging times as well: World War One and
the Great Depression; the uncertainties of World War Two and the postwar
recession; constant travel; the challenge of having a young family as
an older man; ill health for the last 30 years of his life; divorce;
maintaining his role as a father from great distance and economic
uncertainties.

He was an honest man.
His work was meticulous, even when he was more interested in doing other things.
He served his country well.
His entire family -- grandparents, parents, numerous cousins and his children -- loved and respected him and enjoyed his company.
He did what he felt was his duty, without complaint.
He was never hesitant to express affection and gratitude and respect to the people around him.
He had very good manners.
And he spent his last days in home town he loved.

Saturday, May 16, 2020

Journalism -- almost heaven

Clippings from my first paid newspaper job in Atlanta

By Sanders LaMont
May 2020

 My journey through pandemic isolation included unloading lots of boxes that stored memories of my life. Turned out to be a fun trip.

The first batch of boxes included mostly photographs;  more than 60 years of pictures of old friends, long-dead relatives and once-new babies.  That took several weeks.

The best boxes were a mix of personal letters, photos, and newspaper clippings  that remind me I am one of the luckiest people on earth.

In addition to the blessings of wife and children, I was able to work at a profession -- a job if your prefer -- that I loved, for almost 50 years: a newspaper journalist.

The seeds were planted in high school, specifically on the staff of the "Skirmisher," the newspaper at Marion Military Institute in Alabama. In my junior year I joined the staff as a writer in the 1950s.  It was fun and challenging to get information, get it right, and get in down on paper.

The next lucky step was when I transferred after junior college to the University of Alabama and decided to try journalism as a major. As a transfer student, I did not know many classmates so I wandered into the campus newspaper office of the Crimson and White looking for something to do. I was instantly recruited to write and report stories, none of them earthshaking but all of them providing me a license to go anywhere, be nosy and ask questions. Every day was a learning experience.

Within months I was a managing editor mostly because I had little social life outside the newspaper, worked hard and the paper was fun. I was even paid -- an unexpected bonus -- $28 a month, enough for beer and steak dinner on Friday nights. By the time I ended my junior year I had found my place, the kind of people I liked to hang out with and my career.

And then things got better. Based on the recommendation of my classmate Patricia Potter,  later a successful  romance novelist, I got a letter from City Editor Harold Davis of the Atlanta Journal, then the largest newspaper in the South, accepting my application for a summer internship as a reporter in 1961.
A real job.
A real daily newspaper.

Interns at the Atlanta Journal newsroom 1961. The only name I can remember -- a very Southern name -- was Stark Sutton, standing with his back to the camera. He later worked for Coca Cola.

I was one of four students brought to Atlanta from all over the country, paid $50 a week ($10 more than minimum wage), and promptly assigned to learn the basics by writing obituaries.

We interns became friends, connected by poverty and ambition. I quickly moved out of the local YMCA's barren room because the $60 a month rent was way too expensive. I moved to the Sigma Chi fraternity house (where I did not belong) for $50 for the entire summer. My roommate from Minneapolis and I ate at the school cafeteria, cheap but filling, and took the bus downtown to work. We drank beer together, and even attended a weeklong Shakespearian Festival on the Emory campus, our idea of fancy culture. We ran around in a group that included three guys and one girl.
(It turned out later that I was the only one that stuck with newspapers as a career.)

As you would expect,  interns on a newspaper are the lowest form of life in the newsroom. Even the "copy boys" were held in higher esteem. The first week we arrived all five of us had to read and sign a notice that "whistling  in the newsroom" was known to bring bad luck and strictly forbidden.
When things were quiet we were required to assemble  what we called "books," consisting of three elongated sheets of typing paper (made of cut up newsprint to save money) with two carbons inside, so that every reporter had one original for the editor, one copy for the writer, and one for the Associated Press office upstairs just in case it was interesting. These books were stacked on every reporter's desk.
Editing was done with heavy pencils, and scissors and a glue pot. Filling the glue pots was another chore for anyone who did not look busy.

The newspaper editors in Atlanta believed that everyone had an interesting story, and it was up to us to find out what it was.

The city editors were the kings of our domain. The copy editors sat around a circular desk, scowling once in a while in our direction, and fixed our rookie mistakes. They played bridge on their lunch break.

The senior editors in the newsroom were so far above us we rarely even saw them. The managing editor Pat Waters welcomed us the week we arrived. The executive editor Jack Spalding worked on another floor in the building and we met him once in passing.

We initially were  assigned to write obituaries.
We were required to verify every bit of information provided by funeral homes by personally interviewing a family member, and then find something that told the story of the life of the deceased. It was an education to pick up the phone within hours of a death and speak to the widow or family member of the person who had just died. One lesson I learned: almost everyone, even when grieving, wants to tell a story. Another lesson: just because I had learned the person died did not mean the people on the phone knew that.
Obits were usually short but if you got a really good story you had a chance to achieve every intern's ultimate goal: a page one story. It never happened that summer.

Once a week I was assigned to cover the cops beat, which meant multiple daily trips to Atlanta's police headquarters where I plowed through reams of reports looking for stories. As I began to know the cops and secretaries, they would tip me off to better stories.

Part of that beat was the fire department. One night I found myself standing on Peachtree Street in the heart of downtown watching a multi-story building burn. A fireman suggested I step back, and as soon as we did the front of the building collapsed onto the street near where we had been standing.

Another time a detective asked me if I wanted to meet a murderer  He allowed me to watch as he interviewed a tearful and pathetic woman who had stabbed her lover. She admitted it, and said she really did not regret it because he beat her.

Still another time I watched in the emergency room at Grady Hospital while a detective tried to revive a gunshot victim long enough to identify the person who shot him. The man died on the gurney while I stood there watching.

And then there were the bank robberies.

A page one story, every intern's dream. And yes, covering bank robberies was fun.

Being a street reporter in a big city I saw more life and death in a few months than in my entire life growing up. I learned quickly that poverty and ignorance and crime were part of life, and that power corrupts.

After  more  experience the city editor would send us out on special assignments. 

Depending how trusted you were the assignments included stories like  "Brother Saves two-year-old Sister from Drowning," which was my first page one byline story.  After congratulating me the next morning, my editor explained with a smile that the story probably landed on page one because the photographer had captured a very cute picture of the two-year-old sister with her cat.
We were not allowed to take ourselves too seriously.

Looking across a reporter's desk in the Journal newsroom to the City Desk in the summer of 1961. Harold Williams was the City Editor and Reese Cleghorn was his assistant.  The pneumatic tubes carried stories down to the composing room, and the wire service machines lined the back wall.

We had no permanent desk assignment, using any open desk with a decent manual typewriter and a phone, moving away when a veteran showed up.

I finally got one out-of-town assignment, covering a historical re-enactment of a wagon train from the North Georgia gold fields to Atlanta, riding wagons during the day, and staying at company expense in cheap motels at night. Big stuff.

But it was the daily news that we thrived upon. Cops. Fires. Local government meetings. Conventions. And even man-on-the-street interviews which were a staple.

We took pride in being the paper people read every day.

The Journal -- "Covers Dixie Like the Dew" -- was the largest paper in the state, far larger than the Constitution which seemed to be modeled  after the more conservative-looking New York Times. The Journal published in the afternoons  and had multiple editions with deadlines starting as early as 9 a.m. and running until about 1 p.m. for the big street sale editions.

So we had to learn to show up early, move very fast, work the phones or the offices of newsmakers, and file a first edition story by  9 a.m. If it was a big or developing story we would have to collect more information and rewrite it for later editions. The writing style mirrored that of the Associated Press: most important stuff on top, short punchy sentences, and supporting information followed. If it needed to be trimmed they did not have time to rework a story . The editors simply cut off the bottom few paragraphs. It was called "the inverted pyramid" style of writing, common in journalism and hated by really good writers.

Ernest Hemingway was our hero. Short sentences. Action verbs. A punchy style. He apparently said he quit newspapers before it ruined him.

Our work days started at 6 a.m. and often ended by 3 p.m. Our social life was   drinking beer after work with colleagues at a place called "Journal Alley" across the street. Once in a while the interns would move on to a tavern in Buckhead that had a piano, cheap beer and a colorful hostess. One beer-influenced night we tried to drive to the Georgia coast for a seafood dinner, discovered it was several hundred miles away, and showed up late for work tired, hungover and embarrassed the next morning. The editors were amused.

Toward the end of the summer Atlanta was facing the biggest story since the movie premier of Gone With The Wind,  taken by a novel written by Margaret Mitchell, who had once been an Atlanta Journal reporter.

The summer was marked by racial tension and unrest, and the Atlanta Public School System was going to integrate for the first time in history. The South was generally in turmoil.

No one could predict what would happen, so the newspaper staff prepared as if for war. 

The city fathers -- including the major business owners and elected city politicians -- had spent a decade selling the city as the "New South," friendly to business and all newcomers and they did not intend to let that get away.
The police were trained well, and the city leadership made it clear they would not tolerate violence from any source.

But we did not know what might happen and the Klan was still active in the state,  so the game plan for the newspaper read like a military planning document with troops everywhere.

Interns showed up at the bottom of the assignment list: "other work."  I was assigned to work with the state desk editor, helping round up news from the rest of Georgia.  It was a minor feather in my cap.

The stars of the newspaper were spread all over town, people whose bylines recorded history: Margaret Shannon, Walter Rugaber, Fred Powledge, Raleigh Bryans and John Pennington. 
(Our daily competition at the Atlanta Constitution, in the same building but fiercely battled every day for big stories, was led by Ralph McGill and Gene Patterson, both Pulitzer Prize winners. They dropped by for a chat one day, and it was a thrill.)

The biggest story of the year in Atlanta turned into a win for the community: there was no violence and the city that bragged it was the leader of the South quietly stepped into the future.

The biggest newsroom argument that day was between the top reporters and the editors: should the story of a peaceful integration of schools justify a really big top-of-the-page headline, or not? The editors won, and the transition was reported almost as if it were commonplace, with routine headlines and no big splash.

Within a week  I was back on the college campus, working on the campus newspaper there, and looking forward to spending the rest of my life on a newspaper.
Next: Growing in Atlanta, and moving onward.












Friday, April 3, 2020

Update during Coronavirus lockdown



One month ago we stayed at a B&B near Santa Cruz- our last big outing

Happy to report the LaMonts are well. Aging in place during the pandemic.

The weather is a California Spring delight. The tulips have already peaked, and the redbud is just beginning. My major chore of the day was to refill the bird feeders and hummingbird feeders, and then sit and watch the little critters fly back and start eating.

We have been in semi-lockdown mode for almost two weeks, and do not expect it to end for another few weeks. Our county has been lucky so far, only three know cases and no fatalities, but we know how it can explode if folks get careless.
Everyone is nervous, or should be.

Pretty much everything we normally do is shut down. No music. No poker. No travels. Even routine trips to the grocery store are off for a while as our daughter insist on shopping for us. She is the queen of disinfectants, and gets very upset if we do much more than take a walk.  Our days have a routine which is pleasant: we get up slowly, eat late, take a walk or do Tai Chi, and then find a chore or a task before lunch. Lots of time spent on the phone or computers. The afternoons are similar, but usually include a nap. We signed up for Netflix so at night we watch TV shows we have never seen before or read. So far that includes Crown, The Derry Girls, and lots of NCIS.

Chores recently included making the birds happy, cleaning out a closet, unpacking boxes of 50 year old photographs, moving furniture around (that is Pat's favorite thing) and short walks to the post office and paying bills. Probably sounds familiar.
I find I am spending about 20 or more hours each week working remotely with the non-profit at the state park, trying to keep things intact and staying in close touch with the state folks about what we need to do to support them.
Pat is closely engaged in looking out for other people by phone and computer. She is part of our parish care ministry which normally helps with rides and food and comfort. These days it is making sure no one is isolated and their needs are being met.
Our church is providing services via Zoom, and we stay in close touch with neighbors and friends by phone or yelling from the front yard. It is a major advantage to have good weather and a front porch to sit on.

We get along well so obviously, this is not a hardship on us.

Our son Zack is in Spokane, and was laid off his job, but he manages.
Daughter Ruth closed her toy store, and the town is shut down, but she keeps busy at home. Her son came home from college to finish his sophomore year on his computer. Her husband telecommutes, and has been very busy because his job is to help corporations set up ways for people to work from home en masse, as in call centers in India.
Granddaughter Delaney lives with her fiance in the Bay Area. She works from home at her job doing genetics research for Lawrence Livermore and her fiance is working at an emergency room helping screen patients.
We worry about them, though we know they are very careful.
They have a rigorous drill about disinfecting and both are okay. They may be headed for the Boston area next Fall for graduate school. 
Zack's daughter Katie is living near him in Washington state with our great-granddaughter Jamie and all are staying healthy. 

The largest impact so far on our family is that Delaney's wedding, which was to be next week, has been postponed, but everyone is taking it well.

The weather is good. The family is good. And our friends all are good so far. 
(The only bad/sad news is that our long time friends Ed and Hellen Willhide's son died this week, not related to the virus, and they are heart broken as we all would be. Keep them in your prayers.)

Life and death are with us all now and at all times.
Our lives continue in a quiet path.
Can't ask for much more good news for us personally.
Love to you and yours